Your kink list for theirs.
Mark what you're into, what you keep secret, and what's off the table. Share your link: to read your list, they have to fill out their own. Then everything is revealed at once, along with your compatibility score.
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Try it: for you, bondage is…
Their answer stays blurred until you give yours.
Something in common: it's on both of your lists.
Your secret is revealed because Alex picked it too. Otherwise, it would have stayed hidden.
Alex can see it's a limit for you. No explaining needed.
How it works
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Fill out your list
For each kink, pick Open, Secret, or Limit. Add your role and your experience, and put a ★ on your signature kink. It's the same screen as in the app.
Kinks 1 open · 1 secret · 1 limitPracticesBondageGive · Love itOpenSecretLimit★Role Give Receive BothExperience Curious Tried it Love itRole playBoth · Curious · hiddenOpenSecretLimit☆LeatherNot selectedOpenSecretLimit☆TicklingNever suggestedOpenSecretLimit☆ -
Share your link
You get a short link. Whoever opens it sees your choices blurred out. To read them, they fill out their own list.
kinqui.com/k/ab12cdAlex · Switch Explorer8 open · 2 secret · 3 limitsPracticesBondageRole playLeatherTicklingFill out yours to see Alex's -
The big reveal
Both lists show up side by side, all at once: your compatibility score, what you have in common, and each other's limits.
87% compatibleAlex and youAlexYouBondage ★In commonGive · Love itReceive · CuriousRole playSecret revealedSecretSecretLeatherReceive · Tried it—TicklingAlex's limitLimitOpen
To see theirs, you fill out yours.
You each see exactly what the other gets to see. Nobody gives more than they get.
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You choose what they see
Three sharing modes. Switch whenever you like, without changing your link.
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Public
“Anyone can read my list.”
Your Open kinks are readable right away, with nothing to fill out. Handy for a bio.
They see
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Full exchange default
“You show me yours, I'll show you mine.”
Once they've filled out their list, they can read your Open kinks, your Limits, and the Secrets you share.
They see
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Mirror
“Only what we have in common is revealed.”
They only see the kinks you both picked. Everything else stays private.
They see
In every mode, a Secret is only revealed if the other person picked the same kink.
No account. No email. No photo.
Just your choices, and a nickname if you want one.
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Nothing is shown unless you say so
Your answers only appear in the sharing mode you picked.
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A Secret stays secret
It only shows up if the other person picked the same kink.
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Your link can be revoked
Did it travel further than you meant it to? Cancel it anytime.
In the KINQUI app, compatibility comes before photos.
A kink dating app for consenting adults. The Kink List uses the same screen, so if you've filled it out, you already know your way around.
- Profiles ranked by compatibility
- You see the people whose kinks line up with yours first, not the best photos.
- Secret kinks
- Keep them hidden and reveal them little by little, to whoever you choose.
- Shy Mode
- Your photos stay hidden until you decide to show them.
- Hard limits, respected
- What you won't do is clear from the start, and never suggested to you.
Your Kink List, in two minutes.
Free · no sign-up · 2 minutes